Good questions. Straight answers.

From your first hello to your next shared plan. Here’s how things work.
Getting to know Flirmi
What is Flirmi?
Flirmi brings dating and events together. Discover people through an event or interest you share, match when the attraction is mutual, and choose something you both want to do. Your profile also connects you with creators, their services, photo requests, and sponsorships.
Who is Flirmi for?
Flirmi is for adults who want to meet through the things they enjoy. Whether you love live music, small-group evenings, creative workshops, or the outdoors, shared interests give your first conversation somewhere to start.
Where does Flirmi bring people together?
Germany is Flirmi’s home market. Explore the events and people around you, choose your interests, and find a connection that fits your kind of life.
Events and shared plans
Can I create my own event?
Yes. Create a gathering, add the details, and choose public, unlisted, or private visibility. Manage interest, attendance, capacity, and a waitlist, and work with co-organizers or staff.
How do I meet people through an event?
Choose an event or category you’re interested in and opt in to discovery. Flirmi shows people who also choose to be discovered in that context, with your preferences and privacy choices taken into account.
Does attending an event make me visible to everyone?
You control whether you appear in discovery. Showing interest in an event or joining its guest list is a separate choice from meeting people through it.
How do we make a plan together?
Once you match, chat about what sounds good, shortlist events, and confirm one together. The event stays connected to your conversation so the details are easy to find.
Can I share a plan with someone I trust?
Yes. Share the details of your confirmed plan with a trusted person through a link. You can revoke the link, and it expires automatically.
Matching and conversations
How does a match happen?
A match happens when two people express mutual interest. Seeing someone at the same event, liking the same category, or joining a guest list does not create a match on its own.
Who can message me?
Conversations begin after a mutual match. You choose who to connect with and can unmatch or block someone.
What happens if an event is cancelled?
A cancellation changes the event and any associated plan. It doesn’t erase the connection you made. You and your match can choose another event together.
Why has a profile or conversation disappeared?
An unmatch, block, account change, or moderation action can change what you can see. Changes to an event or its participation can also affect discovery around that event.
Creators and support
What can I find on a creator’s profile?
Explore their published services, request photos, or choose a sponsorship tier. Each offer explains what’s included so you can decide what’s right for you.
How do service requests work?
Choose a published service and send a request. The creator accepts or declines it. An accepted order keeps the agreed offer and its fulfillment, acceptance, cancellation, and dispute details together.
How do photo requests work?
Send a request and the creator decides whether to make an offer. The offer sets out the content, price, and license. Delivery is private, and access follows the agreed license.
How do sponsorships work?
Choose a creator’s published tier for recurring support and the benefits described in that tier. Review the amount, billing terms, and cancellation information before you confirm.
Where can I find prices?
Prices belong to the individual service, photo offer, or sponsorship tier. Read the offer and its terms before making a commitment. For help with an offer, contact Flirmi.
Privacy and support
How do I block or report someone?
Use the block or report controls to set a boundary or raise a concern. You can also contact Flirmi for help with a safety issue.
How do I request access to or deletion of my data?
Contact hello@flirmi.com for access, export, correction, or deletion requests. The Privacy Policy explains your rights and how Flirmi handles personal data.
How do I contact the team?
Use the contact form or email hello@flirmi.com. Share enough detail for us to help, but leave out passwords and payment credentials.
Where can I read the legal information?
You can read the Privacy Policy, Terms, Cookie Policy, Refund Policy, and Imprint. These documents contain the applicable legal terms.